Tuesday, March 10, 2009

^bEiNg VAIN!^




BEING VAIN


Vanity and pride are different things,


though the words are often used synonymously.

person may be proud without being vain.


Pride relates more to our opinion of ourselves;
vanity,


to what we would have others think of us.


The common idea that success spoils people by making them vain,


egotistic and self-complacent is erroneous;

on the contrary it makes them
for the most part,
humble,
tolerant and kind.


My appearance has changed a lot over the years,


but it has far more to do with how I feel about being a woman.


I`ve never thought of myself as vain.


When I was at Cambridge,


I shaved my head and wore baggy clothes.


What I did was to desexualise myself.

I...
Right now, I feel like I look exhausted,


because I`m tired.

I`m not vain,
like:

I want to look pretty.


That`s never bothered me.


But if I see a photograph of me and I look tired,


then I`d be more worried than if I looked ugly.



bEiNg MYSELF is mY ASSET